I am so busy taking care of my daughters and working that I had to hire a part time helper in Singapore where I moved to. My new boss often asks me to work long hours, so when I do get home, I need to spend time with my two teen girls. I do have some free time on the weekends, and that would not be possible if I did not hire someone to help out. I have had no interest in getting married again anytime soon, and this was the only way I knew how to bring balance to my life. It is working out for me and the girls quite nicely.
My first marriage was not a good one. He was mentally abusive, and I took too long getting out of that situation. I felt fine before I married him, but I didn’t really know how to interpret those signs as easily as I do now. Continue reading